Comments on: Signs that he won’t be asking for a second date http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/ The Dating Goddess's Lessons, Stories & Insights for Yummy Midlife Dating Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:56:45 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: AJ http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-18647 AJ Mon, 16 Mar 2009 10:45:15 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-18647 Speaking as a man in the dating game, the ONLY one of those that's an indicator is the last one. And even that's not definite. Still, it's got to be better for women than it is for men! Indicators that she DOESN'T want a second date: 1) She says, "I had a great time. I'd love to do it again." 2) She doesn't say "I had a great time. I'd love to do it again." 3) She asks you to call her. 4) You're under 6'4" and earn less than £35,000 per year. Speaking as a man in the dating game, the ONLY one of those that’s an indicator is the last one. And even that’s not definite.

Still, it’s got to be better for women than it is for men!

Indicators that she DOESN’T want a second date:

1) She says, “I had a great time. I’d love to do it again.”
2) She doesn’t say “I had a great time. I’d love to do it again.”
3) She asks you to call her.
4) You’re under 6′4″ and earn less than £35,000 per year.

]]> By: mimi http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-17946 mimi Fri, 12 Sep 2008 10:23:40 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-17946 great list. the one about not being interested in you/not asking questions about you isn't an indicator tho'. I thought a guy was selfish and self-involved - he didn't ask about me. He told me later that he decided he wanted to marry me on our first date - that same date where he asked me nothing about myself... His take on it was "didn't you notice how focussed I was on you, I didn't notice anything else, it was all you" blah blah blah. Yes, dear reader, I went out with him for five months, and it was all about him. But at least he had a nice time. I heard after we broke up that he wanted to marry the next girl after the first date, too. She ran a mile. Smart girl! Oh. and I think he's married now. I'm not. great list. the one about not being interested in you/not asking questions about you isn’t an indicator tho’. I thought a guy was selfish and self-involved – he didn’t ask about me. He told me later that he decided he wanted to marry me on our first date – that same date where he asked me nothing about myself… His take on it was “didn’t you notice how focussed I was on you, I didn’t notice anything else, it was all you” blah blah blah. Yes, dear reader, I went out with him for five months, and it was all about him. But at least he had a nice time. I heard after we broke up that he wanted to marry the next girl after the first date, too. She ran a mile. Smart girl! Oh. and I think he’s married now. I’m not.

]]> By: Kristy http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-17575 Kristy Thu, 19 Jun 2008 11:01:36 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-17575 I never thought of this before. It kind of shocked me how some of those little things can assure you that there won't be a second date. Good article. I never thought of this before. It kind of shocked me how some of those little things can assure you that there won’t be a second date. Good article.

]]> By: How do you know he’s interested in you? « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-11195 How do you know he’s interested in you? « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 Sat, 25 Aug 2007 17:28:13 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-11195 [...] It is much easier to identify how he shows he’s not interested, as I detailed in “Signs that he won’t be asking for a second date.” [...] [...] It is much easier to identify how he shows he’s not interested, as I detailed in “Signs that he won’t be asking for a second date.” [...]

]]> By: Lulu http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-11192 Lulu Sat, 25 Aug 2007 16:06:31 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/08/signs-that-he-wont-be-asking-for-a-second-date/#comment-11192 This is a fair comment, TJ, and my experience has helped me to grow more reliant on my instincts, and remain a little detatched for the first few months of any new relationship. This is simple self-preservation. We all have our own in-built detectors for lies, or deceitful/untrustworthy behaviour, but if we're becoming too attached to a romantic outcome we may overlook our instincts. They are usually right on the button. Thinking positively is great, but keeping a sense of our own integrity is an absolute must. This is a fair comment, TJ, and my experience has helped me to grow more reliant on my instincts, and remain a little detatched for the first few months of any new relationship. This is simple self-preservation. We all have our own in-built detectors for lies, or deceitful/untrustworthy behaviour, but if we’re becoming too attached to a romantic outcome we may overlook our instincts. They are usually right on the button. Thinking positively is great, but keeping a sense of our own integrity is an absolute must.

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