Comments on: Men and women see sex differently http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/ The Dating Goddess's Lessons, Stories & Insights for Yummy Midlife Dating Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:56:45 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: tina http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19252 tina Mon, 26 Oct 2009 06:24:42 +0000 https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19252 i feel that sex changes things because felmales get to invoulved after wards but my question is why do men take sex as a game and they don't have any feelings afterwoards and how do females get like that. i feel that sex changes things because felmales get to invoulved after wards but my question is why do men take sex as a game and they don’t have any feelings afterwoards and how do females get like that.

]]> By: janice http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19212 janice Fri, 07 Aug 2009 12:26:41 +0000 https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19212 I am totally emotional wrecked! I agreed that I have been a total fool when i have sex with this guy that i befriended a year ago and became closer when we started dating. I guess that i have allowed passion to take over instead of knowing him a little better. I felt emotionally unstable when i knew that he didn't response as much as i have expected him to be. I am totally emotional wrecked! I agreed that I have been a total fool when i have sex with this guy that i befriended a year ago and became closer when we started dating. I guess that i have allowed passion to take over instead of knowing him a little better. I felt emotionally unstable when i knew that he didn’t response as much as i have expected him to be.

]]> By: Sean http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19007 Sean Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:40:59 +0000 https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-19007 Personally I don't get anything out of sex and I've lost potential relationships because I'm not as responsive as they would like. The times I have had sex, I honestly had no feelings or I was numb at best. Everyone has said that there's something wrong with me or that I'm crazy but I honestly don't feel that that is the case. Personally I don’t get anything out of sex and I’ve lost potential relationships because I’m not as responsive as they would like. The times I have had sex, I honestly had no feelings or I was numb at best. Everyone has said that there’s something wrong with me or that I’m crazy but I honestly don’t feel that that is the case.

]]> By: hunter http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-13334 hunter Sun, 14 Oct 2007 05:54:54 +0000 https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-13334 to lisa, you are right, be careful, I have heard therapists say, the female brain is built to follow men.....up until a certain age, then, women intellectualize... to lisa,

you are right, be careful, I have heard therapists say, the female brain is built to follow men…..up until a certain age, then, women intellectualize…

]]> By: Lisa http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-13294 Lisa Sat, 13 Oct 2007 09:36:13 +0000 https://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2006/08/28/men-and-women-see-sex-differently/#comment-13294 I personally don't know any women, especially the ones over 40 where sex comes with guilt. Most women do love sex as much as men. I have just learned from my own personal experience that most men can have casual sex forever and never get invested emotionally. They can have sex with women they're not all that crazy about or even that attracted to. I personally realized after my divorce and my experiencing dating again after 25 years, that I can only have sex with men who I have incredible chemistry with and who I have feelings for. So, casual sex doesn't work for me. After a couple of times, I get emotionally invested. He's not on the same page and it's over. It hurts too much to go through that. I just know myself very well. Problem is, as I believe someone else mentioned before, a man can tell you anything. Some are very good at figuring out who you are and what you want and be lying. I know one that has been juggling several women all his life, even marrying some of them and still has them all convinced they're the only one. I personally don’t know any women, especially the ones over 40 where sex comes with guilt. Most women do love sex as much as men. I have just learned from my own personal experience that most men can have casual sex forever and never get invested emotionally. They can have sex with women they’re not all that crazy about or even that attracted to. I personally realized after my divorce and my experiencing dating again after 25 years, that I can only have sex with men who I have incredible chemistry with and who I have feelings for. So, casual sex doesn’t work for me. After a couple of times, I get emotionally invested. He’s not on the same page and it’s over. It hurts too much to go through that. I just know myself very well. Problem is, as I believe someone else mentioned before, a man can tell you anything. Some are very good at figuring out who you are and what you want and be lying. I know one that has been juggling several women all his life, even marrying some of them and still has them all convinced they’re the only one.

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