Comments on: How do you know he’s interested in you? http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/ The Dating Goddess's Lessons, Stories & Insights for Yummy Midlife Dating Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:56:45 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Dating Goddess http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19263 Dating Goddess Sat, 07 Nov 2009 04:20:46 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19263 Alexis: He got scared off for some reason. Maybe he felt lied to. But the point is he ran. And I don't think it would be worth your while to find out why or try to win him back, even as a friend. It doesn't seem he's being honest with you, and do you really want someone like that as friend? I know it hurts because you felt it was a mutual smittenness, but someone spooked him. Come join us at my new site, http://www.DatingGoddess.com . Alexis:

He got scared off for some reason. Maybe he felt lied to. But the point is he ran. And I don’t think it would be worth your while to find out why or try to win him back, even as a friend. It doesn’t seem he’s being honest with you, and do you really want someone like that as friend? I know it hurts because you felt it was a mutual smittenness, but someone spooked him.

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]]> By: alexis http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19262 alexis Sat, 07 Nov 2009 03:57:21 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19262 I dated a guy (41yrs old) for 2 months. We first met 14 years ago for a short meet..when we had a 30 second kiss. I was dating someone else, and that was that. So we found each other online earlier this year. We began dating and instantly had a great connection. My online post stated that i was 47 years old. (i look much younger). OUr 2 month courtship was excellent;i met and really enjoyed meeting his family and friends and "the guy i was dating" was falling in love with me..and I with him. I told him the day after my birthday my real age...53 as of the day before. He was kind of shocked at the age difference but was not mad at all at me for not discussing earlier. He said he knew that age was something i did not want to discuss, so it had not been important to ask about. Well, we broke up. He said "he wanted to be open to having children and getting married someday...and that even though I wanted that too, women over 40 yrs old would have a difficult time." I have been very hurt, sad and upset. He has called to say he missed me..but i do not sense it means much more than that. I do not know if I should just not answer his calls hoping that he will miss me enough to want to get back together, or if I should just try to get over this and then contact him as a friend. I feel in love with him and that we made the best connection ever. He earlier told me that the 2 months we were together dating were perhaps the happiest of his life. Btw, we did not have sex...as this is my policy. (not before engagement will I hae sex at this point in my life). What is best to do??? Help!!! I dated a guy (41yrs old) for 2 months. We first met 14 years ago for a short meet..when we had a 30 second
kiss. I was dating someone else, and that was that. So we found each other online earlier this year. We began dating and instantly had a great connection. My online post stated that i was 47 years old. (i look much younger). OUr 2 month courtship was excellent;i met and really enjoyed meeting his family and friends and “the guy i was dating” was falling in love with me..and I with him. I told him the day after my birthday my real age…53 as of the day before. He was kind of shocked at the age difference but was not mad at all at me for not discussing earlier. He said he knew that age was something i did not want to discuss, so it had not been important to ask about. Well, we broke up. He said “he wanted to be open to having children and getting married someday…and that even though I wanted that too, women over 40 yrs old would have a difficult time.”
I have been very hurt, sad and upset. He has called to say he missed me..but i do not sense it means much more than that. I do not know if I should just not answer his calls hoping that he will miss me enough to want to get back together, or if I should just try to get over this and then contact him as a friend. I feel in love with him and that we made the best connection ever. He earlier told me that the 2 months we were together dating were perhaps the happiest of his life. Btw, we did not have sex…as this is my policy. (not before engagement will I hae sex at this point in my life). What is best to do??? Help!!!

]]> By: shell http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19249 shell Thu, 15 Oct 2009 15:54:52 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19249 i have recently had a date that too be honest got a bit steamy i did not go all the way lets say but things did progress very quickly . I am now beating myself up about this he has text me a couple of times since well it only happened tue and he stayed till late wed afternoon (naughty me ) he has texted a couple of times since but i feel physically sick is he interested is it all about sex am i awful if i let it progress i donmt know help i am feeling still hungover, confused and too be honest thinking is dating worth all the agro that comes with it I suppose i just m=need to know is he interested but you cant ask these questions without looking like a bunny boiler . i have recently had a date that too be honest got a bit steamy i did not go all the way lets say but things did progress very quickly . I am now beating myself up about this he has text me a couple of times since well it only happened tue and he stayed till late wed afternoon (naughty me ) he has texted a couple of times since but i feel physically sick is he interested is it all about sex am i awful if i let it progress i donmt know help i am feeling still hungover, confused and too be honest thinking is dating worth all the agro that comes with it I suppose i just m=need to know is he interested but you cant ask these questions without looking like a bunny boiler .

]]> By: crissy http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19229 crissy Thu, 10 Sep 2009 23:35:46 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19229 ok I'm in unfamiliar territories. I ran into an old friend from school a couple of weeks ago and since then he has been texting me all day and night; some texts about nothing some about serious topics. We finally went on a date last week and it was amazing, everything I have ever wanted a first date to be, that night he very sweetly kissed me and that was it. A couple of dates later we had sex, it just seemed to good to be true how much fun we were having both in and out of the bedroom. Last night I slept over his house and since I left this morning no call, no texts, no messages. Is this his way of saying he's not interested? I don't want to be a crazy girl and over think this... ok I’m in unfamiliar territories. I ran into an old friend from school a couple of weeks ago and since then he has been texting me all day and night; some texts about nothing some about serious topics. We finally went on a date last week and it was amazing, everything I have ever wanted a first date to be, that night he very sweetly kissed me and that was it. A couple of dates later we had sex, it just seemed to good to be true how much fun we were having both in and out of the bedroom. Last night I slept over his house and since I left this morning no call, no texts, no messages. Is this his way of saying he’s not interested? I don’t want to be a crazy girl and over think this…

]]> By: maria http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19224 maria Wed, 02 Sep 2009 18:14:42 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/24/how-do-you-know-hes-interested-in-you/#comment-19224 well my situation is quite confusing and new to me,I went on date with a guy I met on the internet i was physical attracted to him and ended up having sex on a first date, I think he must have thought that I do that with every man and now he only calls when he wants to have sex.. but I want more than that, but i'm scared if I tell him I wont see him again.. as i'm writing this I'm realising how foolish i'm being..if the guy can't give me what i want,then i should move on well my situation is quite confusing and new to me,I went on date with a guy I met on the internet i was physical attracted to him and ended up having sex on a first date, I think he must have thought that I do that with every man and now he only calls when he wants to have sex.. but I want more than that, but i’m scared if I tell him I wont see him again.. as i’m writing this I’m realising how foolish i’m being..if the guy can’t give me what i want,then i should move on

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