Comments on: “All I seem to attract are players” http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/ The Dating Goddess's Lessons, Stories & Insights for Yummy Midlife Dating Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:56:45 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: silligirl http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-19234 silligirl Tue, 15 Sep 2009 21:17:25 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-19234 You got insanely lucky, and then chose extremely well, Gatti. British men are just like all the others, God bless 'em!! I've been on a dating site for a while, but I just find it is so tedious to be on constant look out for weirdos, players, wanna be's, liars .. aarrggg.. at 48 yrs old, maybe I'll just get another cat. :) You got insanely lucky, and then chose extremely well, Gatti. British men are just like all the others, God bless ‘em!!
I’ve been on a dating site for a while, but I just find it is so tedious to be on constant look out for weirdos, players, wanna be’s, liars .. aarrggg.. at 48 yrs old, maybe I’ll just get another cat. :)

]]> By: marie http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-19093 marie Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:57:06 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-19093 I agree with you Mady. I've tried online dating for about six months. I dated three men and two were swingers and had been unfaithful in their previous marriages. Both had been divorced three times. There was only a photograph of my face on my profile, so I know these guys weren't initially attracted to my body. When I asked one of them why he was interested in my profile he said he didn't know why. I think a lot of men (who are usually on several dating websites) wink at as many women as possible. They don't care who it is as long as someone responds to them. It's all about quantity and how many women they can get dates with. Which explains why the guy didn't have an answer for my question, by the way. I agree with you Mady. I’ve tried online dating for about six months. I dated three men and two were swingers and had been unfaithful in their previous marriages. Both had been divorced three times.

There was only a photograph of my face on my profile, so I know these guys weren’t initially attracted to my body. When I asked one of them why he was interested in my profile he said he didn’t know why. I think a lot of men (who are usually on several dating websites) wink at as many women as possible. They don’t care who it is as long as someone responds to them. It’s all about quantity and how many women they can get dates with. Which explains why the guy didn’t have an answer for my question, by the way.

]]> By: hunter http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11741 hunter Wed, 05 Sep 2007 23:52:35 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11741 to so cal gold, ...then, that is what you are, "a gold mine." If dressing up or down doesn't matter,,,,, you still get attention,,,, you are just a lovely woman..... to so cal gold,

…then, that is what you are, “a gold mine.” If dressing up or down doesn’t matter,,,,, you still get attention,,,, you are just a lovely woman…..

]]> By: socal.gold http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11706 socal.gold Wed, 05 Sep 2007 01:56:17 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11706 While it is certainly true that a person of either sex who clothes his or herself in a manner that screams sexiness, I have personally found having attired myself conservatively and non-conservatively, that sometimes it just doesn't matter what the heck one is wearing and/or not revealing. I have received just as much - and on occasions - MORE attention when I've worn a longer skirt, pantyhose, a medium-heeled shoe, and a blouse, that although attractive, certainly covered any appearance of cleavage. I also know that revealing too much is showing a lack of personal respect and most guys see it that way too. Basically, a man will treat U in a manner befitting the way U treat yourself. Here it 'tis folks: an individual creates the conditions or the environment that allows people to treat his or herself, in a certain manner. It's a hard thing to recognize sometimes. I know. Been there - did that - done that. Working on improving oneself and correcting negative patterns and behaviors, reveals all sorts of interesting things about oneself. It's not all bad. In fact, it's been kind of fun; a sort of challenge in a way. While it is certainly true that a person of either sex who clothes his or herself in a manner that screams sexiness, I have personally found having attired myself conservatively and non-conservatively, that sometimes it just doesn’t matter what the heck one is wearing and/or not revealing. I have received just as much – and on occasions – MORE attention when I’ve worn a longer skirt, pantyhose, a medium-heeled shoe, and a blouse, that although attractive, certainly covered any appearance of cleavage. I also know that revealing too much is showing a lack of personal respect and most guys see it that way too. Basically, a man will treat U in a manner befitting the way U treat yourself.
Here it ’tis folks: an individual creates the conditions or the environment that allows people to treat his or herself, in a certain manner. It’s a hard thing to recognize sometimes. I know. Been there – did that – done that. Working on improving oneself and correcting negative patterns and behaviors, reveals all sorts of interesting things about oneself. It’s not all bad. In fact, it’s been kind of fun; a sort of challenge in a way.

]]> By: hunter http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11606 hunter Sun, 02 Sep 2007 22:39:49 +0000 http://datinggoddess.wordpress.com/2007/08/31/all-i-seem-to-attract-are-players/#comment-11606 I have been told men from another country are different..... I have been told men from another country are different…..

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