Comments on: Does he know what turns you on?

By: steve

steve — Wed, 07 May 2008 01:59:45 +0000

now then, are we talking about what women like concerning sex, or what they like concerning everything else? this is how i figure things out.
i meet someone interesting, with nice eyes, it really is all in the eys, and i ask them which messenger service they use or an e-mail address. i do want them technologically advanced. i ask then in a messenger, like yahoo, all sort of questions and i answere them back when they ask. i find out what they like, such as food or fun or volunteering or work. i expect to be asked similar questions and i will answere them. i do not however want to know about daily habits or little idiosyncracies that govern thier lives, i would like to learn that first hand and it can not be done in one “first hand” meeting or date. idiosyncracies can take a life time to learn all of them. we all have them and some of them we dont even know we have.
now as for sexual turn on and offs, this i want to know because some of them can be deal breakers. and no one wants the deal broken over something simple. there again its time for “twenty questions”. but not all at once, i take my time. what fun is knowing everything at once. kinda takes the thrill out of a relationship. fisrt sex doesnt always have to be bad sex, but is there such a thing as bad sex?
i admit freely that im complicated, my web site should prove that. how ever my needs are quite simple. i like to do things myself now and then. i can cook and bake, i like it. i also like to keep my home clean, cluttered but clean. i will do almost anything a woman would like to do because my own interests are varied. but i dont do hints and i dont do guessing games. tell me what you want, ill do the same for you.
so in ending this little tirade, there are a few men out ther who know what women like and what turns them on because we ask and we tell. and no im not trying to procure a date even if this sounds like a profile, hehe i hope i havent confused too many people out there but thanks for the chance to speak my mind

By: Phillip

Phillip — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 16:19:34 +0000

My Ex-wife did a lot of hinting that I did NOT pick-up on. It made me feel stupid. It was like sending me a coded message that I didn’t have the decoder for. As far as turning her on I asked her straight to her “What turns you on?” As it turned out some of the things that I never thought of turn her on including grabbing and holding her tight, getting a little rough during sex, like spanking and pinching. Her likes, I just got used to it. So So ladies if he is kinda in the dark about it,you can approach it this way.First ask him what turns him on,then if you can agree with anything that he saids, tell him, also say now here’s what turns me on.

By: sdl

sdl — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 11:49:07 +0000

So, it seems that saying “Porn does nothing for me- in fact, it is soo tacky and fake it turns me OFF” isn’t clear enough?

I can admire a beautiful silhouette of either the male or female persuasion; but, as a culture, we have been exposed to more female ‘role model’ forms and thus see them through a different lens.
Men, honestly, look better in the flesh than just the outline

Of course, I mean men like, oh, Jet Li or Keanu Reeves, or Brad Pitt in Thelma and Louise- heck, poor Gina Davis became completely invisible in that scene- and that takes some doing!
“Ah laake yer wife” Classic line.

By: surfing by

surfing by — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 07:05:57 +0000

Ladies, don’t be too smug. One study a couple of years ago showed that it isn’t that men can’t understand women’s subtle signals, but rather that women fail to signal clearly. The study found that even women couldn’t understand other women’s signals. It’s just that the consequences of failing to see those signals in the same gender are less.

By: Dating Goddess

Dating Goddess — Sat, 01 Dec 2007 04:43:50 +0000

Walt: Yes, both genders’ bodies can be beautiful and works of art. And we’d like to admire your well-toned one, so care to upload a pic?