Comments on: The man-sieve

By: Bill

Bill — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 15:37:52 +0000

Haha!! I am what I consider a pretty cute guy with a large build, few more pounds than I want but not too hard to lose when I`m motivated, about the teeth thing, I recently lost one of my front upper teeth after months of it being loose, how embarrassing, I had already had in the past a few removed from intense pain but not really visible, but this one is right in front and now I have to smile and laugh with my mouth closed. It gives a person a whole different look at him/her self once they lose a tooth like that. Your whole image of yourself changes and you feel that everyone you talk to will instantly judge you by the way you look. Sad but true.

By: greendaze44

greendaze44 — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 00:24:37 +0000

Since I live in Central Texas, my first filter is they have to have all their teeth.

By: Elena

Elena — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 22:26:37 +0000

DG
I’ve noticed that you’ve been posting less frequently. This isn’t a criticism, just an observation. Is the new relationship taking up more of your time or have you decided to reduce the frequency of posts? It’s incredible that you’ve been able to post daily for more than two years so if you’ve decided to ramp down, it would be totally understandable. Just curious.

By: Devon

Devon — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 12:55:40 +0000

We all need to use good filters. I start by eliminating a high percentage of those that contact me who don’t meet the minimum. What has worked best for me is carefully reading the portrait for clues. Does he express himself well, is he positive, funny, active? I look for the nuances and try to read between the lines. My filter has served me well. I’ve dated some great men. We should all consider reviewing/changing our own portrait if it’s not delivering what we are seeking.